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Annual Goals for The 8 Elements
Each of The 8 Elements have essential needs and highest values that are unique to their personal element. So, instead of copying other people's lists of goals into your journal or typing them into your Notes or Notion app, set goals that will actually meet your specific needs and honor your personal values. Set goals for YOU!
The Way of Flow
I've always been self-employed. Each year I would learn, master and get certified in a new modality that I could add to my list of services. And up until this year, when business dried up, I had been able to manifest the income I needed, even though I don't like marketing on social media or self-promotion.
Getting to Happy
People set the goals that they think will make them happy. And it's common for people to write down the same goals, year after year. They have desires and intentions and they write them down, again and again, because they haven't achieved them and they still want them. If this sounds like you, this blog is for you!
Getting Clarity on Your Goals
2023 is a Soft Wood year. It's the year to fall back in love with your life. Renew the love you have for life. And start romanticizing your life.
Getting to Know YOU!
2022 was the Year of YOU! The year of getting to know you. The year of honoring you. The year of fully embodying and BEing YOU! If you don't feel like you've done that, there's still time. The new energy doesn't officially arrive until February of 2023. Your personal energy is still in your personal feng shui element's house. If you need some help, let me be your guide.
Just Like Me
It's common for people to begin articulating a thought with the statement, "If you're anything like me...". Or, they will speak about a topic leading with the assumption that everyone is like them. They think, if you're in their sphere of influence, you must be "just like me".
The End of Hustle Culture
After nearly two decades of hustling, people are overwhelmed and work weary, bone-tired and completely burnt out. And rightly so! The glorification of busyness and prioritizing work over everything (and everyone) else, to feed the insatiable hunger for more, has done irreparable damage to people's relationships and destroyed their health.
What Lies Beneath
There's a lot that lies beneath the cover of a book. A fellow human. A real life.
Fall Fun for The 8 Elements
The Fall season is associated with the Metal element. Hard Metal and Soft Metal personal elements thrive during this time of year. It's their season. The other elements can enjoy Autumn too, by celebrating the season with their own unique personal rituals.
Review: Feng Shui for Business
What specifically sold you on getting the Feng Shui for Business coaching package?"I wanted to pack as much intention into my business as possible and I knew Dara would be the perfect guide to help me honor my own energy so I could serve others in the most aligned way. I felt a deep calling for each weekly topic and knew it would provide me with a better understanding of myself and how to best run my business with integrity."
The Art of Balanced Living
Spring and Fall Equinox are the only days of year when yin and yang are in perfect balance. Day and night are approximately the same length just twice a year. On these days in March and September, the sun appears to rise due East and set due West. And we get to celebrate a day of balanced energy between the dark and the light, before slowly rising into the most yang season or gradually descending into the most yin season.
Feng Shui for Birth
I've written an entire weekend course on Feng Shui for Birth for birth workers. It's based on the Five Elements and their cycles and seasons, family members and representations in nature and The 8 Elements™ and their peace and power elements and best directions. Read about the private Feng Shui for Birth coaching package for women.
A Labor of LOVE
Writing is a labor of love. With my process, it's slow and cyclical as I work my way along the spiral path. And with my commitment to embodying the elements it's all consuming and highly disruptive to my personal life.
Love | Hate Relationship
After finishing the Mountain Earth guide I've been preparing myself to take on the Mother Earth energy. I know what I'm in for. I've done it before and I'm about to do it again. And like the Mother Earth default emotions of love and hate, I too have a love/hate relationship with this personal feng shui element.